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How To Fuck A Girl & Have The Best Sex: Top 10 Sex Tips

by SexyMentor 29 Aug 2022 0 Comments

Uncover the top 10 secrets that seasoned lovers know how to fuck a girl properly. Check out our comprehensive guide to having the best sex of your life!

Not all sex is good sex.

Fucking a girl isn't just sticking a P into a V and calling it a day. Great sex should satisfy you and your partner before, during, and after sex.

If this is your first time having sex with a woman, you will naturally feel overwhelmed even if you have already spent thousands of hours in porn.

In fact, even men who have experienced P-in-V sex still need to know basic and professional techniques to make it great sex. There's nothing to be ashamed of.

Our goal is to please.

With that out of the way, here are the best sex tips to get you started. And, don't worry, we'll dive into the basics.

Tip #1: Have Protection On Hand

When things get heated, it's easy to be reckless and skip protection. Many people regret not using it after already doing it.

Don't be one of those people.

You should use protection for two reasons.

The first is unintended pregnancy. Unless you're having sex to get pregnant, use protection, whether it's birth control or a condom. It's better to be safe than sorry when it comes to possibly having a baby.

Next up are STDs or STDs. Some examples are HIV, syphilis and gonorrhea.

In this case, use a condom. Birth control does not protect you.

Remember: Pleasure sex is safe sex.

Tip #2: Prepare

Preparation is the key to many things, including sex. Before finishing the work, you should consider some to-do lists.

Aside from condoms, another bedside essential is lubricant. Keep a good lubricant within easy reach whenever you need it. Even if your girl is naturally lubricated, it's still good to use lube because they reduce friction, make sliding into your penis easier, and overall feel good.

Also, don't forget to adjust your mood. Little things make a big difference.

Open your favorite (have sex) playlist. Dim the lights. Light some candles.

These may be small details, but they have a big impact on setting the right mood.

Tip #3: Foreplay

Foreplay is not optional. (Sometimes you can skip it, like with a quick scan. Other than that, it's always necessary.)

Women usually take longer than men to wake up. This is because you have to stimulate your partner before doing anything. Thankfully, there are many ways to do this.

  • Know what excites your partner. Communicating with her is crucial for you to understand what she likes. You can apply all the tips you find, but it won't work if that's not what makes her tick. Being open and honest about each other's arousal triggers is not only productive, but erotic and trusting.
  • Send flirty text messages throughout the day. Foreplay doesn't start when you undress. You didn't have sex every minute of the day. Always make her feel wanted, and texting is an easy way to do it. Sexting her throughout the day lets her know she's on your mind and that you can't wait to take her.
  • Take time to undress. Building expectations is a great way to turn on a woman. So when you take off her (or yours) clothes, do it slowly, one piece at a time. Insert some kisses and licks between the strips.
  • Exudes sexy. That doesn't mean you have to have six pack abs. Sexy can be defined as good hygiene. Women are attracted to men who are clean and smell good. So don't skip the shower and deodorant, boys. Maybe trim those nails if you plan on petting her.
  • Take it slow and take it easy. Foreplay is not a sprint. Think of it as a marathon. Explore her entire body. Luxurious sexy view. You don't have to hurry (unless you're doing a quick one, maybe). Spending time in foreplay leads to better P-in-V sex, especially when she's so excited and actually begging you.

Tip #4: Never Underestimate Kissing

Kissing is an important aspect of sex, even though it’s often neglected.

Women (and men, TBH) get a lot of erotic pleasure from kissing.

Okay, let me get scientific for a minute. Women, in particular, have a heightened sense of taste and olfactory detection. So basically, kissing a person leads to exchanging certain hormonal and pheromonal information via fluids, AKA sebum, and saliva.

What does that mean? People use kissing to assess their compatibility with a potential mate (even though we’re actually unaware of it). Okay, so what? Kissing is CRUCIAL for sexual attraction.

Passionate kissing also boosts happy hormones, increases bonds (thanks, oxytocin), and boosts sex drive (!).

Pucker those lips and smooch away.

Tip #5: Master The Art Of Fingering

Fingering is really enjoyable for a woman and, if done well, can lead to her orgasm. It can be your side dish (for penetrative sex) or a main dish.

So, I'll give you some tips.

Do Some Housekeeping

First, trim your nails. It can be painful for your girl when you poke her vagina like a wild boar with long, pointy nails.

Don't forget to wash your hands. The vulva is very sensitive to bacteria, and your hands can easily accumulate these bacteria throughout the day. So don't take your hands off her vulva until you wash it.

Warm Up With Foreplay

Make sure to only put your fingers in when she's wet and ready. Doing this when she's dry can make her uncomfortable, and it might even ruin her mood. You can also use lube to make her happier.

Get To Know Her Clitoris

The clitoris is a small pleasure nub that swells when she is aroused. It's home to many nerve endings, so when you stimulate it, it makes her very happy.

Many women get orgasms from clitoral stimulation more than anything else. At the same time, it is very sensitive, so be careful not to overstimulate it.

Stimulate The G-Spot

Slowly insert one finger, preferably the index finger, into her vaginal opening. Then, bend your fingers with your palm facing up.

Explore about two to three inches deep in the walls of her vagina. If she's aroused, you'll feel a bump or wrinkle. That's the G-spot.

Find the rhythm, pace, and pressure that makes your partner feel great. Some tricks are to tap the area with your finger pad, make a circular motion, or stick your fingers in and out.

If she inserts, you can insert a second finger as well.

Always Check With Your Partner

Don't just do what you think is good. Every woman finds different things enjoyable. Always reach out to her and get her feedback. Stop when she pushes your hand away.

If she's close to orgasm, don't switch! Many people make the mistake of doing other things when they see their girl is about to orgasm. Keep doing what you're doing until she hits her big O.

Tip #6: Perform Oral Sex

Don't stutter when you have oral sex. There are plenty of oral techniques to try, so you should be able to find one that feels good to her.

Many women feel shy when their partner suggests that she go out to dinner. So, first of all make her feel at ease and let her know that there is nothing to be shy about.

Best Tongue Movements For Oral Sex

Here are 5 tongue movements I can swear by:

  • Flicker your tongue up and down her clitoris and labia.
  • Make a circular motion. Go round and round around her sensitive spots.
  • Swipe your tongue side to side, left to right, etc.
  • Rapidly push or tap your tongue on one area, like a pulsating motion.
  • Do the figure-eight around her clit and labia.

Best Positions For Cunnilingus

Facesitting

Lie down and let her straddle your face. This position gives her movement control so she can lead with her favorite rhythm and movement.

On your knees

Kneeling in front of her as she stood. Then, ask her to lift one leg. She can support it on your shoulders or on the edge of a chair, bed or bathtub (if you do this in the shower).

69 on the sides

You can always do 69 to have fun with each other. I bet you know what that is (your head is on her vagina, her head is on your cock, if you didn't know). However, you can do the same position by lying on your side instead of having one person on it.

Tip #7: Explore Different Sex Positions

There are hundreds of varieties of sex positions to try. So what’s the most important thing to consider?

1. Cowgirl Or Woman-On-Top

As I said, these sex positions are also loved by men. And, yes, women like to be in the lead! It allows them to control the angle, speed and depth of penetration. You can also easily stimulate her clitoris in this position. Also, you can enjoy the view of your girl riding on top of you.

2. Scissoring

The scissor position isn't just for female-on-female sex. With women loving this, you sure know there's a big reason. Your crossed legs allow her to rub your legs with her clit during penetration. So... yes, clitoral stimulation is always pleasant for her.

3. Doggy

Need I say more? The doggy style (and its variants) is loved by women. It's sexy, sensual, and hits her G-spot just right. Penetrating her from behind will always make your woman moan with pleasure. swear.

4. Coital Alignment Technique (CAT)

It's like a missionary, but with a different variation that stimulates the clitoris. It starts in missionary pose with one partner's legs on the other's back. Before insertion, the penis should be pulled forward slightly so that the shaft of the penis rubs against the clitoris.

Tip #8: Incorporate Sex Toys

Of course sex is great. But you can spice it up with sex toys. Contrary to what other people think, using a sex toy doesn't mean you or your partner aren't good enough. And, TBH, more couples are now open to bringing sex toys into their erogenous circles. good for them.

Why should I use sex toys with my partner?

It's like adding extra toppings to your already delicious ice cream. Sex toys provide sensations that humans (and our tongues, fingers and genitals) cannot get. So why not?

OK, so what to keep in mind when buying sex toys?

communicate. Discuss with your partner what she likes and what she likes to explore. There are a lot of toys out there, which can be intimidating when you're a newbie.

Now out of the way, here are my recommendations for the best sex toys for couples: 

Tip #9: Reach Your Climax

You’re in the throes of passion. You drown in the sensations. You let go a little bit… and whoops, you ejaculated. A bit too early, I might add.

Don’t worry. You’re not a sexual failure. Some men even ejaculate in less than one minute. On average, it’s around 5 to 7 minutes. Women take longer. And this can be a bummer because when you’ve orgasmed, it’s going to be hard to continue even when she hasn’t climaxed yet.

Tip #10: After-Sex

Knowing how to fuck a girl doesn't stop at quitting. There are plenty of guides on what to do before and during sex, but what about after? You don't just walk out of the room.

Sex is a messy process. There's sweat, bodily fluids, etc. So in general, it's okay to not do anything after sex if you want to. However, if you're ready to do some playful post-cleanup work, you should:

  • Wash up. Well, the vag is capable of cleaning itself. The peen doesn’t need immediate cleaning as well. But it’s nice to wash, especially if you don’t like the icky feeling or smell. Or baby wipes could do too.
  • Pee. Many people swear by peeing after sex to lower the chances of UTIs and vaginal infection, especially for your girl.
  • Clean the sex toys. Cleaning sex toys after sex is essential to remove bacteria and get them ready the next time you use them. It also helps you ensure they stay in tip-top condition to last longer.
  • Then, maybe get back in bed for Round Two. Because why not?
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